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My apologies for a damn stupid post a few days ago...

Discussion in 'Residing in Thailand' started by sirchai, 14 Sep 2016.

  1. sirchai

    sirchai Thread Starter Well-Known Member

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    I guess i made a few more new enemies when i posted that my colleague's looking for a foreigner.

    First, I wanted to leave it as it is, said yes to help her, but then decided to post something that should never be on a website like Thailand teaching Asia.

    The biggest mistake I guess was that I had some Leos in me when I did the extraordinary thread.

    Calling her sexy on an open forum was really weird and another part that I couldn't take back and all in all, I came to the conclusion that I don't want to be involved in anything where a Thai woman is seeking a foreigner.

    To make a long story short. I didn't want to harm Stamp's page, nor was it in my intention to piss off quite a few good old members.

    Sorry.
     
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  2. gungchang

    gungchang Well-Known Member

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    As long as "she" isn't a LB, no biggie.
     
  3. paull

    paull New Member

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    Very sensible.
     
  4. Templeton

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    I didn't even finish reading. Didn't see the first thread. Send me a pic. I'll let you know if I'm interested. I'm American. Post MOAR of these types of threads. I'm not a sleaze but I'm Human too. I appreciate the help with any local....:celebrate2
     
  5. bahn_farang

    bahn_farang Well-Known Member

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    Sirchai's post was a very sensible retrospective post regarding a post he had made. He showed great professionalism in making the apology.
     
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  6. Joko

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    What's wrong with LBs?

    Cisgenderist!
     
  7. gungchang

    gungchang Well-Known Member

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    Being a LB is like being married.
    There is a point at which one should disclose either status to a prospective friend/partner. Failure to do so in a timely manner can lead to a shocking experience.

    As for "cisgenderist," I'm not even going to google it.
     
  8. bahn_farang

    bahn_farang Well-Known Member

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    true but isn't hind sight a truly wonderful thing, especially when the mistake was made by someone else. Opps, please forgive me, I almost forgot, welcome to the forum:welcome2
     
  9. Mr. Chips

    Mr. Chips Active Member

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    The guy apologized.
    Nothing else needed to be said.
    Cheers Templeton.
     
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  10. Mr. Chips

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    By that I mean "nothing else needed to be said in a negative tone."
    Thx all.
     
  11. sirchai

    sirchai Thread Starter Well-Known Member

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    Nope, professionalism would have been not posting it in the first place, all he is doing now is back-peddling, making excuses and almost blaming someone else, "I came to the conclusion that I don't want to be involved in anything where a Thai woman is seeking a foreigner.",[/QUOTE]


    A great first post, indeed. Congratulations.
     
  12. Mr. Chips

    Mr. Chips Active Member

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    Excuse me Templeton. I mis-read and thought that you had started this thread.
     
  13. Clown

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    I've had an engineer pester me to meet his SIL, a DJ at a radio station up South. She was cute and a decade younger than me. Still, my resounding NO, thank you was ignored. So she came...

    You might have guessed it by now, this story has no happy ending.

    He wanted me to "try out" some other woman next, would you believe that?!?

    Thai morality is one of the areas where I am not "getting it".

    * mother's coming to a date
    * teens posting explicit acts on FB or liking a boy's post regarding fellatio. Without them even being together. Oh, one and the same person, BTW.
    * I knew a girl of 30 who had a double degree and her family forced her to return home for the night. A 2 hours trip each way.

    Yes, I've been asking to be a matchmaker many times and by people I wouldn't have expected of.
     
  14. sirchai

    sirchai Thread Starter Well-Known Member

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    Stamp, you'd do me a great favor to let this one disappear. I did something wrong and apologized for it.

    I don't have a problem when people make a joke about it, but it's really time to move on.

    What do new members think when they read that not knowing what it was all about?

    Thanks a lot for your kind consideration. It was long enough visible and has done its part.
     
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  15. sirchai

    sirchai Thread Starter Well-Known Member

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    It doesn't seem to have an end. Thx for your post, deeply appreciated.
     

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